Dear parents,

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What am I teaching to my child? Isn't that the question should parents ask to themselves. Nepali culture is wild. The functions are almost every week. Your whole family members, relatives, close ones get together and spend quality time. But, these gatherings are adding negativity as well. People gather and they just talk about the negative side of people in society and also about the young generation's. He/she is dis-obedient. The new person coming to the house as "Buhari" is not well mannered. All of the talks and gossip is adding the same brain to the younger generation. Criticism is good that makes people better but Criticism should be with positive message, also with the solutions to the young ones. so, that they can learn from the criticism not stay back and think that he/she should take revenge.

If your child is not obeying you. Why not ask yourself what is leading him/her to be arrogant.
To what people or children he/she hang out with. How did he/she spend time? knowing these answers parents can work to help grow the positive side of the child.
I have given him nice food, internet to use, T.v. to watch, a vehicle to ride, and still, he is not understanding the effort and not serious about life. most parents do share these with relatives and people around.
It is rather important to know about the mental and emotional side of the child. What phase they are going through so that we can understand the child and help him grow, develop a good quality and shine tomorrow like nobody else.
You are 30, 35, 40, 45 as a parent. stop blaming a child of 5, 8, 13, 16. Start evaluating his daily beings.
Once they are enrolled to the positive side and taught to embrace positivity, taught to dream,
Taught to help people, discipline, financial education, and help them understand society.
The better tomorrow is waiting and the face of society will change.
Let's embrace the young generation and make a better world for tomorrow.
let's work together. Are you looking for your younger generation differently?
Start doing.
Start teaching.
start embracing.

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